FAQs

What is your booking process, Mstrs?
To book time with Me, use the Contact Form.
After reviewing your contact form, I will send you a questionnaire to complete. Following this, I will invite you for a 30-minute online consultation. During this consultation, we will discuss your questionnaire responses, expectations, and book your first session with Me.

This process typically takes no longer than 7 days. Please note, only serious queries will be responded to, and I carefully review every questionnaire.

I need to cancel. What is the refund policy?
1. Deposits are non-refundable.
2. Cancellations made more than 48 hours prior to the session can be rescheduled within 60 days of the original session date.
3. Cancellations made less than 48 hours prior to the session will result in liability for the full session fee.
4. In the rare event that I must cancel, clients may request a full refund or reschedule the appointment within 60 days of the original date.

How much does it cost to book time with You?
Please refer to the Serve Me page for detailed information on the ways we can spend time together, including rates for the majority of services I provide.

A few services do not list a flat rate. If you are interested in these services, a consultation is required after initial contact to discuss your specific needs and requirements further.

Payment and deposits: how do they work?
A deposit is required to secure every service.
An appointment is not confirmed without a deposit. Deposits cover accommodation and travel expenses.
Please review the terms below. If you require further clarification, make a note, and we can discuss it during our consultation.

Play Online, Sunday roast & flowers: Full amount (100%) at the time of booking.
In-person session/social meet: Full amount for 60 minutes sessions, 75% for 90 minutes session, 50% for sessions lasting 2+ hours, at the time of booking.
The remining balance is to be paid at the time of the appointment.
Chastity: Weekly payments in advance. Bi-weekly or monthly advance payments are also acceptable if preferred.
Bespoke, Double/Triple Domming, etc.: To be discussed during our consultation.

How do You prefer I tribute?
Eager to become My favorite, aren't you? Gift giving and sending tributes will certainly catch My attention. Visit the Tributes page to select and purchase items I desire, as well as to explore My preferred tribute platforms (Tipfunder and Throne are favorites of Mine).

I am considering the use of pre-paid cards for those who wish to send Me cash gifts.

A tribute is a symbol of your gratitude, respect, and admiration for Me. Whether small or large, all tributes are deeply appreciated.

Are you discreet?
As a mostly faceless Dominatrix, discretion is a given.

Sunday roast & flowers?
Literally. There's no better way to start the week than with good food, good company, and a beautiful view of the City. This is perfect for anyone who prefers a relaxed lunch date. I adore flowers and small plant, especially chrysanthemums and peonies, and you are encouraged to but them for Me.
Unlike other services I offer, Sunday roast & flowers is one flat rate.

I only want an hour in-person session:
Introductions, discussing our needs and limits, check-ins, and aftercare all take time. I prefer 2 hour sessions because it gives us time to pace ourselves.
If you do want an hour in-person session, there are a few points to take into account:

1. Play time is shorter: Discussing our needs and limits, check-in, and aftercare still need to be done, which will take away from the physical session.
2. The full balance is required at the time of booking: In-person sessions are a 90 minute minimum. If you want an hour session, the full balance is needed at the time of booking.
3. Dungeons aren't usually lenient with time: An hour is usually an hour when it comes to dungeon hire. On the off-chance that business is a little slow, they may show grace and be a little generous with time, however this is not a regular occurrence.
4. Suggestion: Power Hour LDN: An hour Forced-Bi Experience

Can I book a 90 minute in-person session instead?
Yes, you can certainly book a 90 minute session.

Hmm. I'm still unsure.
Oh, but you ARE sure. You are sure that you're only contacting Me to waste My time. This tells Me everything I need to know about you - you're an attention seeker with commitment issues, whose only highlight in life is bothering Me with your fantasies and carrot dangling.
Pathetic.
I'm not - and will never be - in the business of chasing or convincing any man that I am worthy of their time.
If you ever contact Me with your fantasies, your contact details will be logged and blocked.
Leave My site.


I've had a bad experience with a Mistress before..
I'm sorry your previous experiences with a Professional left you apprehensive about stepping back into BDSM. I want you to know that I really appreciate you contacting Me. You may prefer meeting in a social setting first to see if we are compatible, and if you're ready to move into a physical in-person session:

Social Meet is a service I provide for many reasons, including vetting, checking compatibility, and most importantly, eating. This can be a morning, afternoon, or evening arrangement and will help ease the pressure of an in-person session, should you want to book one in the near future.
Sunday Roast & flowers is another social option, and very similar to the Social Meet. Just as the name suggests, you meet Me with a lovely flower arrangement, and we sit down to enjoy a Sunday roast in London together, with some dessert and a good natter.
Another service that may interest you is an Virtual session. This session isn't strict, and it can be a chat, play, or a mix of both. It lasts 30 minutes, with the option for a longer session if needed and if I have the time.
Let's get you back in the saddle - book a Social Meet with Me.

I am ready to book time with you, Mstrs.
Great. These are the words I want to hear. Please make sure you have the following:
Dates, times, and lengths of session(s)
Kinks, fetishes, soft and hard limits
Time to sit down and fill out the Questionnaire - sent after I receive your contact form
Payment card to secure booking.

That's it. That's all I need.

Booking is never the complicated part. It's procrastination. Stop that.