Mstrs Revel: The Anonymous London Dominatrix

I understand how this might look to you. I'd be cautious, too.

You're searching for the perfect Domme, and you come across My website. There I am: a headless body with thick legs sitting in an armchair. You scroll down and see the same headless body laid across a sofa, legs folded. You scroll further and find an image of My double E's—still no head.

At this point, I can imagine many potential clients might lose interest.
Is she fake?
Is she ugly?
Why is she hiding?
In an industry where looks are everything, why choose anonymity?

For security.
Long story short, there may be many ProDommes in London, but not many are Black ProDommes, and I value My privacy. I love being a Domme, but our boundaries are often disregarded, violated, and ignored. With the rise of cybercrime and advancing technology, these violations are only getting worse: image, audio, and video modification, location finders, stalking, blackmailing, phishing. Staying anonymous allows Me to control the versions of Myself that I expose and maintain My power. I plan to keep it this way.

The 'look' a sub has when they see Me
Meeting someone for the first time, especially from an online platform and when discussing kink anonymously, is always a gamble. All the subs and slaves I meet in person have a particular look when they see Me—relief mixed with excitement. Their eyes widen; some relax while others turn shy. Walls come down, and conversations flow, building trust to delve deeper. When I chose to be an anonymous Dominatrix, I focused on promoting low-risk services like online sessions, social meetups, and Sunday roasts.

After meetings, I often receive follow-up messages like, "I didn't know what to expect, but I'm so happy I met you. Such a great surprise," and usually, an in-person session is booked. Meeting socially is a great way for everyone involved to interview each other.

It's confidence building
Try this: pose, take a photo, and obscure part of your face—lips, eyes, maybe the whole face. How do you feel looking at yourself? This photo could be anybody, but it’s you. The pressure is lifted. When I took My photos, I was stunned. I had never taken photos like that. I felt proud and in awe of Myself. I stood a little stronger. Soon, I plan to take a range of photos with My fellow Dominatrix and friend, Mary the First, and I know I'll be ready to be daring and more brand focused.

Navigating as a Domme in the City of London
Being an anonymous Dominatrix can limit My reach and visibility. So, how do I do it? How can you verify that I am authentic, active in the community, and worth getting kinky with?

I stay active, trained, social, and always smiling. Here’s how:I was part of the 2023 Fall MistressClass cohort run by Colette Pervette, a professional Dominatrix with over 18 years of BDSM experience. I am now a Big Sister in this year’s 2024 Spring Cohort. A directory advertising all Dommes trained with Colette in MistressClass is currently in the works.

I regularly attend workshops with London’s Miss Kim Rub, a professional Dominatrix with over 36 years of BDSM experience.

All My social platforms have the same handle - @tealRevel. I am working on verifying all the platforms I am present on.

My Linktree and/or website can be found on all platforms. I will start streaming on selected platforms this month (May), and My Linktree and website will be updated accordingly.

I am very active with other Dommes, subs, slaves, and kinksters on Twitter and Fetlife. Give me a like, follow, or DM, and let’s get into conversations. You can tell Me how you found Me :)

I regularly attend munches and kink events, which are Mentioned on Fetlife under "Events Going To." I also Mention these events on My Twitter.

I was part of the Domina Parties UK in April with Goddess Cleo and Domina Jemma

I am a regular attendee of Club DVS, run by Goddess Cleo and Veronica Viper. This month, I will be one of their Guest House Dominatrices (May 17th).

I will be the Guest House Dominatrix for Club DVS in June

FUTURE DATES

I will be guest Dominatrix alongside Miss Kim Rub at The Chardmore Society - a discreet BDSM party on the 2nd June

I will be Guest House Dominatrix for the second time for Club DVS' special Pride Party on the 22nd June

Whew! That’s quite a bit about Me and how you can verify My legitimacy—not just for Me but for anyone you’re considering being vulnerable with.

Having an in depth digital and physical footprint, and staying active, authentic, and warmth are keys to Navigating successfully as an anonymous Dominatrix in the City of London.

TTFN,

Mstrs Revel xx